JAY PAYLEITNER is a freelance writer, creative director and radio producer.? He is the author of52 Things Kids Need from a Dad, 52 Things Wives Need from Their Husbands and 365 Ways to Say "I Love You" to Your Kids. Jay has served as a long-time writer/producer for ?Josh McDowell Radio, ? ?Jesus Freaks Radio, ? ?Project Angel Tree? with Chuck Colson, and ?Today's Father. As a recent guest on two broadcasts of ?Focus on the Family? radio, Jay shared his hopeful and upbeat message for fathers and husbands. Jay and his high school sweetheart, Rita, make their home in the Chicago area where they?ve raised five great kids and loved on ten foster babies.